The heart behind the work

fueled by wild wonder 

Hey there, I’m Bridgett! A  Spiritual Formation pastor turned guide, teacher, and faithful firestarter. I help Christian adults navigate sexual desire, dating, and boundaries with clarity,  confidence and deep connection to their values.

With a background in ministry and emotional health, I find deep joy walking with people through the messy, beautiful intersection of faith and desire. 

I HELP YOU RECLAIM DESIRE WITHOUT COMPROMISING YOUR CONVICTIONS.

What I Do

Sexual desire, dating, and faith are full of tension and tenderness. But I believe God meets us right there in the mess and the mystery. I hold space for the questions that linger and the stories that still sting. Because that is where the glory unfolds.

Life is complicated

Your body is not a battleground. It is holy ground. The way your chest rises when you laugh, the ache you feel when you long for more—it is all sacred. Desire was never your enemy. It was always a doorway to deeper connection.

Bodies are good

I believe Jesus isn’t waiting to correct you. He’s longing to hold you. His kindness doesn’t silence your questions. It makes space for your ache, your anger, and your becoming. This is a love that never flinches.

Jesus is Kind

I'm convinced that...

ARE WE A PERFECT MATCH?

FAQ #1

Yes, absolutely. Your sexual story matters whether or not you’ve been in a relationship.

 Understanding your relationship to your body and your desire impacts every area of your life not just romance. This work is for anyone who wants to live with greater self-trust, clarity, and connection.

Can I work with you if I am not (or have never been) in a relationship?

FAQ #2

You are welcome here. Understanding your sexual history is part of the path toward healing and wholeness, not something to avoid or erase.

Whether you’re carrying grief, regret, or just longing for a new way forward, this space is here to help you reclaim your story with compassion and clarity.

What if I have already been married or have had sex?

FAQ #3

Nope! I work with men who are ready to honor their desire, take ownership of their story, and become sexually safe & emotionally present lovers and friends. 

Do you only offer coaching for women?

FAQ #4

Reclaiming doesn’t mean abandoning your values for sex. It means gently honoring the longings God placed within you. It’s about processing shame, building self-trust, and discovering how to live with clarity, curiosity, and conviction in your dating life.

What do you mean by "reclaiming sexual desire"

FAQ #5

My coaching is best suited for those who have already begun their recovery journey and are ready to rebuild trust with their body and prepare for physical and emotional connection. If you’re still in the early stages of healing, I’d be honored to connect you with trusted guides who specialize in recovery. Please reach out—I’d love to help you find the right support!

What if I am struggling with unwanted sexual behavior that is consuming my life?

 I became a certified Connection Codes coach and Unwanted Guide and realized the work I’m most called to is right here with Christian singles, dating, and engaged couples. This is where I help people navigate desire, dating, and boundaries with emotional honesty, spiritual depth, and self-trust.

2024: Certified and Focused

After five years as a spiritual formation pastor, I stepped into coaching to walk more personally with people through the mess and beauty of desire, shame, and faith. I started by helping men and women uncover what was real in their stories. 

2022: Transition from Pastor to Coach

When I discovered the Connection Codes framework, it gave me the tools I didn’t know I needed to navigate emotions, build safety in  myself and my relationships,

2021: A New Way of Life

I graduated from Nyack College (Alliance University) with a degree in Youth and Family Studies, concentrating in Marriage and Family Therapy. I knew then I was made to hold space for healing, relationships, and emotional depth.

2017: Academic Roots

I heard a sermon from a Christian sex therapist that lit something deep in me. It was the first time I saw sexual desire framed as sacred—and it changed everything. I became hungry to learn how to help others approach sexuality and intimacy with honesty, embodiment, and spiritual integrity.


2015: The Spark

From my years in ministry to the work I do with singles and couples today, every season has shaped how I help people build trust with their bodies, connect to their stories, and live with clarity and confidence.

How I got here

My Journey

Jonathan

As a man, I was overwhelmed by conflicting thoughts about sexuality. Talking with Bridgett felt like a breath of fresh air—she gave me tools to process my sexual desire in a healthy way, so I can embrace sexual joy with awe and purity instead of fear and disconnection.

"She is such a safe place!"

tanya

Bridgett took a holistic approach at helping me pursue sexual health and wholeness when I was feeling broken and worn out. My sessions were so personal and practical. and provided me with tools for my everyday life. She empowered me to embrace my autonomy, healing and purpose

"I found healing I didn't know was possible. "

Amy

I longed for healthy, intimate relationships but constantly found myself swimming in confusion about why it wasn’t happening for me. Through this work, I uncovered how living under others’ expectations and moral judgment led to shame, fear of disappointment, and losing my own voice. Bridgett’s kind guidance has been one of the best gifts I’ve given myself. I carry a hope for my future now that I’ve never had before.

"Investing in 1:1 coaching has been one of the best gifts I have given myself!"

Sarah

When Bridgett explained self-trust and what it means to not be at war with myself, It gave language to something that was affecting me and a tool for processing it. Now I take time to sit down and check in with myself when I’m feeling stuck without struggling and getting overwhelmed for weeks from the build up of emotion.  I have learned that processing your emotions is the surprising key to a healthy spiritual walk. We’re all human and we need it! 

"I have learned that processing your emotion is the surprising key to a healthy spiritual walk. "